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Barbara A. (Graham) Barilla

October 20, 1931 ~ November 19, 2020 (age 89)


Barbara A. (Graham) Barilla, 89, of Middletown, passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 19, 2020, at her home in Lower Swatara Township, surrounded by her loving family.  Born Tuesday, October 20, 1931, in Harrisburg, PA, she was the daughter of the late Donald and Elizabeth (Keller) Graham.  She was married to Robert E. Barilla, Sr., for over 36 years.

In addition to her husband, she is survived by three children: Shelley A. Frank, married to Paul, of Galeton; Jodi L. Thomas, of Middletown and Michael R. Thomas, married to Lisa, of Middletown.  Also surviving are three step-children: Linda J. Barilla, of Cape Coral, FL; Robert E. Barilla, Jr., married to Melissa, of Middletown; Susan K. Bell, married to Donald, of Middletown; 10 grandchildren; 15 great grandchildren; 1 great-great grandchild; a sister, Judy G. Lipiec, married to Earl, of Middletown, as well as Barbara’s extended family and caring friends.  In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by a brother, Donald G. Graham and a sister, Nancy G. Engle.

A Graveside Service will take place at 1 PM on Tuesday, November 24, 2020, in Middletown Cemetery, 675 North Spring Street, Middletown, PA  17057.  Arrangements have been entrusted with the Fager-Finkenbinder Funeral Home & Crematory, Inc., 208 North Union Street, Middletown, PA  17057, 717-944-7413.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Barbara’s memory to the Middletown Food Bank, 201 Wyoming Street, Middletown, PA  17057.

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Graveside Service
November 24, 2020

1:00 PM
Middletown Cemetery
675 North Spring Street
Middletown, PA 17057


Middletown Food Bank
201 Wyoming Street, Middletown PA 17057

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